tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3813931369346468387.post1892759732440696395..comments2024-02-15T12:33:16.624-05:00Comments on Amber Skyze: Am I Too Sensitive?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05244564493291133822noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3813931369346468387.post-77875726208658931122010-11-19T09:41:35.163-05:002010-11-19T09:41:35.163-05:00You are not being overly sensitive. One sided frie...You are not being overly sensitive. One sided friendships aren't really friendships at all. You are doing all the giving and she's just taking. Not right. She cares about nobody but herself.Regina Carlyslehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06316730032624449669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3813931369346468387.post-24885323496032059332010-11-16T08:24:17.885-05:002010-11-16T08:24:17.885-05:00She's not worth the grief; block her out on he...She's not worth the grief; block her out on her b'day and see how she likes it. I cant believe that a person you've known for 25 years doesnt remember your birthday. She has no problem using you as her sounding board when she needs to vent. She totally selfish and doesnt deserve to have you as a friend. Just my 2 cents.Heather Petershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11204964429556228247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3813931369346468387.post-4694007051166750282010-11-15T18:10:41.418-05:002010-11-15T18:10:41.418-05:00I never remember anyone's birthday - EXCEPT FO...I never remember anyone's birthday - EXCEPT FOR members of my family and my best friends. There you go. I have a friend who is a drama queen also and I get very fed up. That's life. Don't sweat it, Amber. You're okay. And happy birthday!Julia Rachel Barretthttp://juliarachelbarrett.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3813931369346468387.post-75299655086820104362010-11-15T09:07:58.744-05:002010-11-15T09:07:58.744-05:00(((HUGS)))
I'm having the same issues with a ...(((HUGS)))<br /><br />I'm having the same issues with a friend of nearly 25 years too. Only comes to see me when it's convenient (we live 20 miles away), and one week she kept promising to stop by...and no matter how many times I rearranged MY schedule, she didn't make getting together a priority, even though we've not seen each other since August. This may not seem like a big deal, but when she needed me three years ago, we met once a month for coffee. I needed HER that particular week, and she couldn't be bothered.<br /><br />I did blow up at her the last time we spoke on the phone, and that was the problem: She didn't realize how selfish she'd been coming across. Now she's agreed not to make plans with me unless it's a DEFINITE she'll be in town. And yeah, she forgets my birthday too, even though I've only forgotten hers once!Molly Danielshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01488325587798390008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3813931369346468387.post-58471421294455138792010-11-15T09:02:43.623-05:002010-11-15T09:02:43.623-05:00Facebook reminds me of a lot of people's b-day...Facebook reminds me of a lot of people's b-days I know I shouldn't forget. But with a hubby, daughter, parents, in-laws, seven brothers and sisters, their spouses and over 20 neices and nephews, someone's having a birthday every week. It's hard to keep track. My side of he family doesn't even bother to exchange Christmas gifts anymore. We just get together and eat. It's so much easier that way.<br /><br />But you probably have a different situation going on with your friend, so no, I don't think you're overreacting either. Sounds like your more her friend than she is yours. <br /><br />Hope you got some good stuff for your b-day!Linda Kagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00259042112816376940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3813931369346468387.post-80646542133490942352010-11-15T06:06:28.064-05:002010-11-15T06:06:28.064-05:00Being overly sensitive, no. Over reacting, no. Eve...Being overly sensitive, no. Over reacting, no. Even through her drama, she should have said "Happy Birthday". After 26 years of being friends, it's hard to believe that it was forgotten. Don't blame yourself for feeling what you are feeling. It is not healthy. I wouldn't seek her out either and knowing me, childish or not, I would not be wishing her any birthday wishes. <br /><br />Good luck with everything. Take a deep breath and whisper, "Onward!" putting it all in the past.Marie Rose Dufourhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02919200697291374700noreply@blogger.com